The Willow · Surprise, Arizona · September 13, 2026

Flowers & decor,
stage by stage.

Every surface at the wedding, in the order guests meet it — with a mockup, a parts list, a unit cost, and how many of it we need. Build one, price it, multiply. Hand the whole thing to the coordinator and nothing needs explaining.

Guests
144
Guest tables
18
Days out
13
Budget
$500–1,000
Est. total
$684.25

The spine of the whole plan

Four stages, one set of flowers

Guests move through the day in one direction. Decor moves with them — pieces built once for the ceremony are carried inside during cocktail hour and used again. Nothing is bought twice.

  1. 1

    The walk-in

    4:30 PM

    Guests park and walk the paver pathway toward the lawn. First impression of the whole day.

    Guests see: the welcome table, the seating chart on the curved wall, then the arch across the turf.

  2. 2

    Ceremony

    5:00 PM

    30 minutes, outdoors on the turf, 144 chairs in two blocks facing the Traditional Arch.

    Guests see: the arch clusters and the aisle markers — the only decor that matters for half an hour.

  3. 3

    Cocktail hour

    5:30 PM

    Bar opens. Guests drift to the south end of the same lawn while chairs are struck behind them.

    Guests see: the bar, six cocktail tables, benches and cornhole — and the ceremony being quietly dismantled.

  4. 4

    Reception

    6:30 PM

    Acero doors open. Dinner indoors, dancing back outside on the slab.

    Guests see: 18 dressed tables under the brass rings, the sweetheart table, cake and dessert.

Build one, price it, multiply

Every surface

Costs are Hobby Lobby only — everything buyable in one trip. Stems come from bundles, not picks: a $7.19 bundle at an assumed 35 stems works out to about $0.21 a stem, where a single pick is $1.49. Counting one bundle in store is the single thing that would firm up every number on this page.

Walk-in welcome — On the path

Walk-in welcome

Outdoors where the paver path meets the lawn — the first decor anyone sees

1

CeremonyThe walk-in→ moves inside at 5:30

Arch-topped sign boardverify$24.99
Display easel, 5ft (paintable)2161420$19.99
Large vesselverify$5.99
~30 stems + eucalyptus$9.30
8 faux rose bloomsAfloral 4-pk$2.72
Per sign$62.99

This arrangement is the template for the two ceremony back-row pieces — same language, same build, so all three read as one family. Weight the easel feet; the lawn edge is exposed.

Ceremony arch — Single corner swag

Ceremony arch

Fabric only — no flowers

1

CeremonyCeremony

Traditional Arch, 89 × 97″venueincluded
White chiffon panel, 5 × 32ftTCF$27.99
Clips + ties$3.00
Per arch$30.99

One panel gathered at the top-left corner, falling down that upright, rest of the frame bare. The asymmetry stops it reading like a photo booth, and there is less fabric for the wind to fight. Skip a back ribbon — guests never see the reverse.

Back-row arrangements — On the ground

Back-row arrangements

On the turf at each end of the last row — the ceremony’s only flowers

2 needed

CeremonyCeremony→ sweetheart + dessert at 5:30

Wide floor vesselverify$11.99
Desert DryFoM brick665018$0.83
~40 stems + eucalyptus$11.40
8 faux rose bloomsAfloral 4-pk$2.72
Per piece$26.94
× 2$53.88

Framing the aisle entrance rather than decorating its edges — two statement pieces instead of six small ones, they read in the wide shot, and they are trivially easy to carry inside. Faux so they survive the heat and the move; fresh is an option if you would rather.

Seating chart — On the dark wall

Seating chart

Leaning on the dark corrugated wall, beside the bar

1

Dance floorCocktail hour

Arch-topped board, brass frameverify$39.99
Brass clips + 18 name cards$8.00
Terracotta pot + ~15 stems1732627$7.14
4 faux rose bloomsAfloral 4-pk$1.36
Brass geometric lantern$12.00
Per display$68.49

Straight from the venue’s own photo. The dark ribbed wall is why it works — a pale board and light flowers read bright against it. Board and lantern prices are estimates.

Bar — The counter
The counter
Bar — The menu board
The menu board

Bar

Counter kept clear — a mocktail menu, no flowers

1

BarCocktail hour

Wood-framed chalkboard, ~16 × 20″verify$14.99
Tabletop easelverify$5.99
Chalk markers$4.00
Per bar$24.98

No florals — the counter needs working space more than it needs decor. Drinks are alcohol-free, so the menu is the styling: five mocktails built from juices, sparkling water and fruit. The mockup names are a starting point, not a decision.

Cocktail table — Cocktail

Cocktail table

A small accent, nothing more — the top holds drinks

6 needed

CocktailCocktail hour

Terracotta pot (6-pk ÷ 6)792788$0.33
~4 stems + eucalyptus$1.34
1 faux rose bloomAfloral 4-pk$0.34
Per table$2.01
× 6$12.06

The one place clay still earns its keep — small, warm, and it reads against a dark outdoor tabletop where clear glass would vanish. Deliberately tiny.

Guest table — Guest table

Guest table

Three clear bud vases along a cheesecloth runner

18 needed

Reception hallReception

Cheesecloth runner, 10ftTCF$7.69
Clear bud vase × 3685644$7.47
~9 stems from bundles$1.89
Eucalyptus picks × 2HL $1.49$2.98
3 faux rose bloomsAfloral 4-pk$1.02
Per table$21.05
× 18$378.90

An 8ft table seating 8 is long — one centrepiece leaves both ends bare, so three small vases give rhythm down its length. Clear glass disappears and lets the flowers read. Each arrangement is only ~8″, well under sightline. THE RUNNER IS THE BIGGEST SINGLE COST ON THIS PAGE at $138 across 18 tables — worth pricing bulk cheesecloth by the bolt before committing.

Sweetheart table — Flanked, not dressed

Sweetheart table

A table for two — bare wood, candles, flowers on the floor

1

Reception hallReception← receives both ceremony back-row pieces

Glass hurricanes × 6verify$24.00
White pillar candles × 6verify$9.00
Florals — migrated from ceremony$0.00
Per table$33.00

Rebuilt from the venue’s own sweetheart photo: the wooden top is left BARE — no runner — with just two clusters of pillar candles in glass hurricanes, and the flowers standing on the FLOOR at each end. This is a table for two, so a full runner would read like a guest table that lost six people. The two ceremony back-row arrangements are exactly the right scale to flank it, so the florals cost nothing extra.

Cake, dessert & gift tables — Food first

Cake, dessert & gift tables

The dessert is the decoration — flowers are a small accent

3 needed

Reception hallReception

Clear bud vase685644$2.49
~4 stems + 1 bloom$1.34
Eucalyptus pickHL $1.49$1.49
Votive candles × 2$1.00
Per table$6.32
× 3$18.96

Most of this surface is taken up by cake, cookies, tarts, plates and forks — there is no room for an arrangement and it would look cluttered if there were. One small bud vase tucked beside the cake stand, a couple of votives, a few loose eucalyptus sprigs on the wood. Roughly a tenth of the visual weight. The venue library has no cake-table photo, so this one is grounded on the general pattern rather than a photo of this room.

5:30–6:30 PM, during cocktail hour

What moves inside

Staff strike the 144 ceremony chairs. In the same window, these pieces are carried in. This is why every arrangement has to be liftable by one person, stable on turf, and water-free — which dried and faux both are.

  • Back-row arrangements × 2Flanking the sweetheart tableBuilt on the ground for the ceremony, they land on the ground again either side of the sweetheart table. Same scale, same staging, one lift. This is the single best reuse in the plan.
  • Walk-in welcome arrangementBeside the cakeGuests have already seen it on the way in. Too big for the dessert tabletop, so it stands on the floor beside it.
  • Bridal + bridesmaid bouquetsSweetheart table vasesAlready bought, doing nothing after portraits. Someone needs to be told to collect them.
  • Ceremony chairs × 144Struck by venue staffOpens the lawn for cocktail hour. Confirmed as staff work.

Saved by reusing rather than buying twice: $85.38.

One trip, one cart

The Hobby Lobby list

Buy before mid-August

Fall floral is 40% off now. The deeper markdowns (50% in November, 80% later) land after the wedding. And with 18 tables you need one consistent SKU in quantity — buy the whole lot in one trip rather than accumulating.

ItemItem #UnitQtyCost
Bunny Tails Bundle, burnt orange5541784$7.196$43.14
Bunny Tail Bundle, beige1776616$6.995$34.95
Lagurus Bundle, burgundy2405926$7.993$23.97
Wildflowers Bouquet, burgundy6042600$8.392$16.78
Pampas Grass Stem, 39″2411015$4.794$19.16
Terracotta Flower Pots, 6-pk792788$1.998$15.92
Terracotta Low Cylinder Pot1732627$3.992$7.98
Amber Glass Bottle Vase6410971$5.996$35.94
Desert DryFoM Bricks, 6-pk665018$4.991$4.99
Display easel, 5ft2161420$19.992$39.98
Chalkboard + tabletop easelverify~$20.981$20.98
Taper candles + brass holdersverify$12.001$12.00
Florist wire, tape, twineverify$4.001$4.00
Arch sign board + seating chart boardverify~$32.492$64.98
Brass clips, name cards, lanternverify$20.001$20.00
Estimated total$684.25

Blooms — a separate order

Faux blooms on the 18 guest tables and everything that migrates; fresh only where the camera goes — the arch, the sweetheart table and the bouquet. Hobby Lobby has nothing close to Afloral on value per bloom.

ItemVendorUnitDetailQtyCost
Terracotta Rose Bush, 4-packAfloral$10.9932 blooms — $0.34 each2$21.98
FRESH roses + ranunculus — archflorist / Costco~$45.00day-of, ceremony arch clusters1$45.00
FRESH roses + ranunculus — sweetheartflorist / Costco~$25.00day-of, three clusters1$25.00
Bridal bouquet (fresh)floristTBDnot yet costed1

Against a $500–1,000 budget that leaves real headroom — candles, linens, or fuller arrangements are all affordable from here.

The separate track

If we want true terracotta

Hobby Lobby has no terracotta or rust bunny tail — the closest is burnt orange, and it's out of stock online. Afloral does, dyed and dried, and at volume it is cheaper per stem than anything local. This is an ordered-once, shipped track that runs alongside the Hobby Lobby trip, not instead of it.

ItemPriceUnitPer stemWhy
Terracotta Bunny Tail Grass$18.0060 stems$0.30The true terracotta Hobby Lobby does not stock, in any quantity.
Natural Bunny Tail Grass$22.0032″ bunchThe undyed cream partner — mixing the two stops it reading flat.
Dried Feather Pampas$28.003 stems, 45–48″$9.33Taller than anything local. Height for the arch corner.
Preserved Eucalyptus Bundle$38.001 lbReal wax-preserved eucalyptus. A pound covers a lot of table.

The decision: ~580 stems are needed across the whole wedding. Afloral's terracotta at $0.30/stem covers all of it for about $175 in one order with a consistent dye lot across all 18 tables. Hobby Lobby's burnt orange is cheaper per stem but colour-varies by bundle and depends on seasonal shelf stock. Shipping time is the risk at 13 days out.

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Setup sheet

Written for someone who has never seen the plan. Everything guest-facing must be finished by 4:30 PM — guest arrival, not the 5:00 ceremony.

  1. 10:00 AM
    Setup begins — coordinator on site
    • Quiet room in the Willow House set up first, with Noah’s own things in it.
    • Reception room: 18 guest tables of 8, per the floor plan. Sweetheart and cake tables on the left wall.
    • Unpack and lay out arrangements by zone, labelled.
  2. 10:00 AM – 2:00 PM
    The real DIY window
    • The couple are pulled for photos at 2:00 and are unavailable after that.
    • Reception room finished completely — guests never see it being worked on.
    • Welcome table built, easel placed, seating chart mounted on the curved retaining wall.
  3. By 2:00 PM
    Details box to photographers
    • Rings, invitation suite, vow books, jewellery, heirlooms, a few loose stems for styling.
    • Assemble and label it the night before — it gates the whole 2:00 PM photo block.
  4. By 4:30 PM
    HARD DEADLINE — guests arrive
    • Arch clusters on, aisle markers placed, 144 chairs set in two blocks.
    • Bar dressed, chalkboard drinks list up, six cocktail tables out.
    • Everything guest-facing complete. Not 5:00 — 4:30.
  5. 5:30 – 6:30 PM
    The migration, during cocktail hour
    • Venue staff strike the 144 ceremony chairs.
    • Large arch cluster → welcome table. Small arch cluster → splits across the bar.
    • Six aisle markers → the six cocktail tables. Straight lift, no re-styling.
    • Needs a named person — the couple are at portraits 5:40–6:30.
  6. 6:30 PM
    Acero doors open
    • Reception fully reset before guests come through.
  7. 10:30 PM
    Strike
    • Dried and faux arrangements are all reusable — box them, do not bin them.

How the place actually fits together

The estate

Plan view, north up. Buildings sit west, the lawn runs east of them. Everything guests do happens in a single loop — arrive north, ceremony on the lawn, drift south for cocktails, then west into the hall and back out onto the slab to dance.

Plan view of The Willow showing parking, buildings, slab and lawnTURF LAWNPARKINGWILLOW HOUSERECEPTION HALLenclosed · A/C · 18 tablesdark corrugated wall — seating chartBARDANCEDJlow curved retaining wallCEREMONY144 chairs · archCOCKTAIL6 tables · benchesN ↑
  • Ceremony and cocktail share one lawn. North end and south end of the same turf — guests move about forty feet, they do not relocate. This is why the chair strike happens in their sightline.
  • The slab is directly south of the hall. Dinner is indoors, dancing is outdoors, and the sliding glass between them is the only threshold. Both rooms are visible from the other.
  • The hall's south face is dark corrugated metal. This is the seating-chart wall — pale boards and light flowers read bright against it. The venue’s own photos all use it this way.
  • The bar is roofed, the dance floor is not. The bar is the only sheltered spot on the slab. Anything that must not blow away belongs at that end.
  • The paver path is the only approach. Everyone walks it from parking, past the Willow House, to the lawn. The welcome sign belongs on this path, not indoors.
  • The desert landscaping is already rust. Orange-red feathery shrubs, agave and saguaro line the path. The palette was chosen well — it matches the ground it stands on.

What guests see, in order

  1. 1
    Park, and step onto the paver pathGravel lot to the north. The path curves south past desert xeriscape — saguaro, agave, boulders, rust-coloured shrubs.
  2. 2
    The welcome signArch-topped, on a wooden easel where the path meets the lawn, with a floral cluster spilling at its base. First decor anyone sees.
  3. 3
    Past the Willow HouseThe white stucco building with the covered breezeway. The couple and bridal party are tucked inside it until 4:30.
  4. 4
    Onto the lawn, and the arch across it144 chairs in two blocks, saguaros flanking the Traditional Arch, mountains behind. The one view that has to be right.
  5. 5
    After the ceremony, drift southSame lawn, forty feet. Cocktail tables, benches, cornhole. Behind them, chairs quietly disappearing.
  6. 6
    Up to the slab — bar, then the seating chartThe bar is the first covered thing they reach. The chart leans on the dark corrugated wall beside it, read before going in.
  7. 7
    Through the Acero doors to dinner18 tables under the brass rings. Cool air, polished concrete, the desert still visible through the glass.
  8. 8
    Back out to danceOnto the open slab under the stars, bounded by the low curved wall.

Where everything goes

The venue, marked

Aerial view of The Willow with six zones marked
  • Reception hallindoor

    Enclosed, air conditioned, new sliding glass. Brass ring chandeliers, warm-white walls, polished concrete.

  • Ceremonyoutdoor

    Turf lawn, north end. Chairs facing the Traditional Arch, saguaros flanking.

  • Cocktailoutdoor

    South end of the same lawn. Guests move, they do not travel.

  • Dance flooroutdoor

    Open concrete slab, no roof. The curved retaining wall carries the seating chart.

  • Barcovered

    West end, roofed but open-sided. Dashing Spirits serving.

  • DJoutdoor

    East edge of the slab where it meets the turf.

Blocking, or close to it

Still open

  1. Which guest-table build — A, B or C?Toggle them above and the totals update live. It is the only decision that moves the budget meaningfully, because it multiplies by 18.
  2. How many stems in a $7.19 bundle?Every stem cost on this page assumes 35. Count one in store and the whole model firms up. Afloral’s 60-stem bundle at $18 suggests the assumption is in the right range.
  3. Hobby Lobby burnt orange — is it on the shelf?Out of stock online and seasonal. You photographed it in store, so call ahead with 5541784 before driving out.
  4. Afloral order — yes or no?True terracotta for ~$175 covers all 580 stems with one consistent dye lot. Shipping is the risk at 13 days out.
  5. Vessel photosVessels are still being bought sight-unseen off web listings. A phone photo of the terracotta and glass aisles would close this.
  6. Chalkboard and candle pricesEstimated, not verified — no legible tags in the store photos.
  7. Seating chart artworkWall and easel settled. 18 tables, 144 names, design not started.

Working document for Caleb & Miriam. Full detail in docs/venue-inventory.md, docs/flower-shortlist.md, docs/day-timeline.md, docs/noah-plan.md.